Staying Calm in the Eye of the Storm

If you don’t realize that we’re living in what are overtly challenging times, then you’re probably not paying attention. In the micro sense, it seems everybody I know is going through something on a personal level. In the macro sense, these personal journeys are being exacerbated by threats of nuclear attacks, political breakdowns, financial crises, racial tension, mass shootings, devastating earthquakes, erupting volcanoes, merciless wildfires, storm-of-the-century hurricanes, and more. It is indeed a sign of the times…but I’m not playing the game, and I invite you to do the same.

If you believe your thoughts and feelings have an effect on your reality, the moment you react to these external events with survival emotions, you begin putting more of your attention on them, and if you’re putting your attention on these event (events over which you have no control), you’re giving away your power to them. Every time you react with fear and anxiety, because fear and anxiety are emotions and emotions are energy, they only serve to feed the next moment of unrest. What we need to learn how to do in this moment of history is to be in the stillness—to become the eye of the hurricane. The eye of a hurricane is a place of calm, around which spins the storm. We become the eye when we pull ourselves out of the chaos and into the present moment. This is, after all, why we do all the training we do—because it’s in the eternal present moment where all of creation is engendered. By regulating internal emotions independent of external conditions, this is how we begin to master our environment.

Humanity is in the throes of a push and pull whereby there’s an ever-growing collective consciousness that wants to evolve, yet old ways of being and outdated modes of consciousness are struggling to hold on to the known. Depending on the lens through which you view this idea, these struggles could range anywhere from the world’s power structures all the way down to our individual egos. The more you react to your outer world and keep your attention on emotionally charged issues, the more you feed the problems because it’s your energy that keeps them alive. Multiply that by a million, or a billion, and it seems obvious why things might seem like they are getting worse. The stronger your emotional reaction to external events, the more you’re displacing your energy in the opposite direction of creation—creative energy that you could turn inward and use for creating a better life, healing your body, or empowering your energy into a new experience, to name but a few.

While we need to be cognizant and vigilant of injustices in our society, I would encourage you from time to time to disconnect from the news, and if all you see is tragedy and negativity in your social-media news feeds, perhaps disconnect from them as well. If you don’t want to completely disconnect, then be a force for adding light and love to those social feeds. Better yet, in your day-to-day life, perform a random act of kindness for a stranger, call someone you haven’t talked to in a long time, forgive someone or forgive yourself for something you’ve been holding on to. At the very least, be loving and kind to yourself and those around you, because everyone is going through their own challenges.

Remember—fear and anxiety result from anticipation of events that have not yet happened, and as we know, we are the creators of our reality. If you find yourself spinning out in your mind into an unknown future or regretting about the past, just pull yourself back into the present moment. Why? Because when you change your energy in the present moment, you change your future.  That’s being the best example of change—changing your choice—in a world that looks like it might be falling apart.

It’s human to react to these global events, so if you do, just don’t spend a lot of time there. Just get over it. Don’t talk about them, give them energy, give them life, or make them something else. Don’t propagate them, because when you begin to tell stories about the events, you feed them.

Now is not a time to contract. Now is a time to expand into love, after all, love conquers fear.

2017-10-16T16:54:01+00:00

64 Comments

  1. marji October 16, 2017 at 5:37 pm - Reply

    Thank you! Words we all need to read in these changing, troubled times!

  2. Elisa October 16, 2017 at 5:46 pm - Reply

    L’amore calmo è l’amore incondizionato e quindi il tutto. È uno stato dell’essere e non contrattabile…

  3. Becky October 16, 2017 at 6:54 pm - Reply

    Although I do believe this, there are times when I feel weak and discouraged; tired of trying. How do I overcome this discouragement?

    • Bethanie Leah Burke Green October 27, 2017 at 2:16 am - Reply

      Listen to inspiring music…for me this never fails and soon my heart soars again

  4. Pam Thivierge October 16, 2017 at 7:06 pm - Reply

    ❤️Thank you so much for the reminder!

  5. Linda Vollertsen October 16, 2017 at 7:29 pm - Reply

    Thank you…I’ve been feeling it lately and in my meditation realized it may be all the anger creating this chaos and if I am contributing to it then I need to do deeper work. I love the visual of being in the EYE of the storm.
    Thank YOU. ❤️

  6. peter October 16, 2017 at 7:57 pm - Reply

    Absolute Truth ! ” Where your Intension goes your Energy flows ” ! Love and Gratitude to ALL ! Peter

  7. Terri October 16, 2017 at 8:10 pm - Reply

    Yes, when we are awake in this dream we know that we always have a choice. Blessings!

    • Sue b October 21, 2017 at 7:38 am - Reply

      Practicing what I preach is not always easy
      thanks for guidance to keeping me on track
      to be the best I can so I can serve others x

  8. petrof October 16, 2017 at 8:19 pm - Reply

    Thank you for this beautiful article. With Louise Hay and Dr. Wayne I entered completely new world. And you are worthy successor. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experience.

  9. Jennifer October 16, 2017 at 9:56 pm - Reply

    This is so true, I follow this great advice as best as I can and keep from being pulled into the negative spiral that is presented on everyday news feeds. Thank you for letting me know I have the right idea.

  10. Pat October 17, 2017 at 2:33 am - Reply

    I agree. Abraham says that by focusing on the negative or the negative person we dislike we are attracting more events and more negativity from that person. I believe that all the turmoil in this country and the storms is a reflection of the negativity we are feeling and projecting outward. It’s time to focus on peace and love and forgive those you believe are doing wrong.

  11. Deniece October 17, 2017 at 2:47 am - Reply

    So true Dr Joe…
    I have a few friends that believe I am ‘burying my head in the sand’ by not wanting to know what the daily news has to report each day. I believe I can be of more use to the peacefulness of the world by staying centered and quiet. The less the reaction in me, the more balanced the energy is that I emit. Thank you for sharing your wise word.s

  12. Ruth October 17, 2017 at 5:14 am - Reply

    Lordy lordy, voice of reason.Thank you. We, at Village Yoga, love us some Dr. Joe! And we use your model for meditation, and we try to explain to people what you do and we try each and every day to follow and use these wonderful tools you’re providing. Thank you again for all you do. Because we know it’s not enough to know and we’re learning how!
    Love and gratitude,
    Ruth O’Donnell in Santa Cruz

  13. Georges October 17, 2017 at 5:29 am - Reply

    Beautiful and timely post. I’m inspired to post a link to this video where this beautiful spiritual Master encourages us in the specific case of terrorist attacks, to pray not only for the victims but also for the perpetrators. Sending love, even when it’s difficult, allows us and the planet to expand rather than to contract in a powerful way.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lKG9m_mLN8k

  14. John C. October 17, 2017 at 12:20 pm - Reply

    The world is full of social activist. As the number increases of humans turning their attention to enlightenment, love, and laughter, we approach the 100th monkey effect and the collective starts to shift. This is the great paradigm shift that has been talked about and that is upon us. Blessing to all.

  15. Susie Stone October 17, 2017 at 3:40 pm - Reply

    God is Kind and l say talk to him instead of listening to the news all the time. We are never are going to have peace on this earth anyway and God can only give us this with eternal life.

  16. Leda Lu Muniz October 17, 2017 at 8:10 pm - Reply

    Yes, a great reminder to put us back into our central pole.”The eye” in the eye of the storm. Thank you!

  17. Lysiane Fonseca October 18, 2017 at 7:57 pm - Reply

    Amazing, Dr. Joe! Thanks once again for being light and hope in our lives! ❤️

  18. Mary Dixon October 20, 2017 at 1:52 pm - Reply

    Perfect, thank you. Your first paragraph especially seems so true…on the micro level SO many including myself going through major challenges, and it is exacerbated by the world problems, feeling very much in survival mode these days. I will put more focus on the present moment. Your free mini course for your HayHouse promotion is very helpful too. Thanks.

  19. Laura October 21, 2017 at 7:27 am - Reply

    Thank you, I needed ti confirm what ai have been trying to do. Lover, peace and best wishes from Barcelona.

  20. Chantal Donnet October 21, 2017 at 7:28 am - Reply

    Thank you Dr Joe, I really needed to hear this. It is so encouraging and right to the core. Thank you from Australia xx

  21. Lucie Lacelle October 21, 2017 at 10:07 am - Reply

    Merci pour ce texte stimulant et tout à fait à propos. This text is so in line with some events which I have been living lately and answering some questioning I had. Thanks so much for being in my life; it allowed me to be resilient and calm while going through challenges and greives which I feel are leading to a new life.

  22. Andres October 21, 2017 at 10:07 am - Reply

    Don’t feed the trolls! That is what we are doing when we perpetuate this negativity of the world

  23. M.K. Styllinski October 21, 2017 at 10:33 am - Reply

    I agree with the thrust of this article but I think its a very fine line to turn away from global “news” and events and to slip into the comfort zone and thereby ignorance. Reacting with fear and anxiety is of course not what we want. But we cannot turn away either. The world is a mirror of our internal states and we have allowed these shadows to manifest in the world unchallenged. Perhaps we need to cultivate discrimination and discernment in rooting out so much of our own self-deception, a process which must go parallel with highlighting deception and lies in the external world. This is surely what leads to knowledge (rather than belief) correctly applied. We can’t do that unless we are suitably informed about the world. You stated: “don’t talk about them”. How else are we to gain knowledge and network for a better world? Denial is what got us into this mess in the first place. Spreading love and light is part of that but gaining knowledge in order to know when our choices are real choices and our actions real actions is crucial.

    There is a big difference between placing our attention on obvious injustices and lies in order to indulge our emotions and focusing on these issues in order to bring them into the light of objective analysis. You do not feed problems by focusing on the negative, only if your intent is to add to the noise; by indulging in emotional reaction devoid of comprehension and the will to know. Attention depends entirely on one’s intent to liberate or to selfishly indulge our emotions as a tension release. If it is to transmute those negative energies by spreading knowledge of the truth of the situation – as best we can – then this is the heart and head working together and therefore remaining compassionate but detached from emotional reaction. We need to look into the shadows in ourselves and the world to transmute them by understanding and acknowledging their presence not pretending that only love and light is the route to liberation.

    The eye of the storm is only peaceful when it is not based on denial. I know that’s not what you were saying and of course its necessary not to identify with bad news so that we become incapacitated. But I do think that these negative events are showing us that we need to dig deep not to just simply fall back into a perceived bliss of belief masquerading as “calm”. We need to gain spiritual will and courage. That’s surely what gives the calm in the eye of the storm.

  24. Eric Selhorst October 21, 2017 at 10:39 am - Reply

    Hi Joe, thanks again for posting these wonderfull and enlightening messages from the heart an the infinite source of wisdom. In meditation and silence we get these messages of peace . I always call it entering the eye of the hurry-cane. We have to go inside to coincide with the world around us. Bless you. Eric

  25. Anna October 21, 2017 at 12:05 pm - Reply

    We are the change in the world ……..
    The new frequency

  26. Mineke October 21, 2017 at 12:13 pm - Reply

    I love these articles, again and again. So blessed to know about this. Thanks Dr. Joe for all your teachings and lifechanging explanations!

  27. Alina Mihaescu October 21, 2017 at 12:41 pm - Reply

    came exactly at the right moment . and as always,such a blessing! thank you, dr. Joe for everything you are doing!

  28. Lisa Claudia Briggs October 21, 2017 at 12:54 pm - Reply

    Perfect.. .timely and clear in ways that everyone can absorb.. sharing, thank you. xo

  29. Hannelore Helm October 21, 2017 at 1:10 pm - Reply

    Thank you so much. I need often to remember this.

  30. Lilia Avila October 21, 2017 at 2:22 pm - Reply

    Wonderful!!! Thank you

  31. Nancy October 21, 2017 at 3:06 pm - Reply

    Thank you!!!!! Truly needed this excellent reminder NOW. 😁❤️☮️
    Wishing joy & happy hearts to ALL!

  32. Katie Darling October 21, 2017 at 3:12 pm - Reply

    Thank you! I’m so grateful that Joe keeps putting forth this perspective. It feels as though this way of seeing things was quite popular and common 10-20 years ago, but now it has kind of gone out of fashion, and people on spiritual paths are falling into a victim mentality of “it’s all out there and we should just be mindful of the terrible times we’re in” instead of a more radical approach of truly seeing ourselves as the hologram and working to shift it from the inside.

  33. Dee October 21, 2017 at 3:17 pm - Reply

    Thank you so much Dr Joe, Your article is fantastic. I haven’t watched the ‘News’ for years and feel so much better for it. Gratitude to you….

  34. Donna October 21, 2017 at 3:49 pm - Reply

    What I do is send Love and Light to the situation & the people, for everyone’s highest good and the good of all concerned. Then I see myself protected in Light and I try to emanate and project as much love as I can from my core. I feel like I have done something – and I have! Yet, in a way that is uplifting and not getting caught in the drama. (Finally!), I truly know that we are all powerful creator beings. My prayer is that we all see (myself included) all that is available to us – which is everything – and how blessings of every sort are always present in the present. Which reminds me… time to meditate! XO

  35. Jessica October 21, 2017 at 4:16 pm - Reply

    I’ve had a self-imposed news blackout for 25 years and the things I REALLY need to know always leak through. My husband joined me on this news blackout a few years ago and is infinitely more happy. I can always tell when he slides backwards and “checks out a few things” because his mood darkens and gloom overcomes him.

  36. Diana Hartley October 21, 2017 at 4:19 pm - Reply

    You are one amazing man and a great leader for those of us out here on a frontier where few understand how they create their own reality. I always look to you for stability and having science to back up your ideas, is the best of all. Thank you for your special place in this world.

  37. Diana Hartley October 21, 2017 at 4:20 pm - Reply

    Your website wouldn’t accept my comments so I am just saying thank you to see what happens. Frustrating.

  38. Tricia McWhorter October 21, 2017 at 4:23 pm - Reply

    Thank you for this. It is INDEED a timely reminder to RW enter and find my inner power and connection.

  39. Maurice E. Stevens October 21, 2017 at 4:38 pm - Reply

    now is also not a time to seek spiritual bypass. Small acts of kindness and prayers and emanating life from the stillness is important. And we also have to make changes to our social system. We need to be part of the process of replacing systems of oppression (at every scale from persons to ecosystems) with systems that are in alignment with stillness… contracting into our own bubble of bliss is also a contraction that doesn’t not unfold life.

  40. Maurice E. Stevens October 21, 2017 at 4:39 pm - Reply

    regulating our internal states and simply sedating ourselves with that warm feeling are not the same thing. Now is not the time to sedate ourselves with the drug of ‘internal control’

  41. Roberta Merchant October 21, 2017 at 4:43 pm - Reply

    Well said brother Joe, I live with your wisdom daily as a practice, starting with meditation every morning.Relating to my clients every day I’ve become more and more sensitive to how my vibration can effect everything and everybody. It really is such a simple approach to effecting change and making a difference! Thank you for your eloquent way of guiding and explaining it so well🙏

  42. Tiago October 21, 2017 at 5:16 pm - Reply

    This is just what I need to read today. Thank you, Dr. Joe. I’ve already disconnected from news and social media but I’m still transitioning to a more constantly optimistic outlook in life. Every so often I still catch myself being fearful, unforgiving or living in the past… So much to learn! Looking forward to the coming up London event. All the best everyone. Let’s keep thinking positive and learning from this incredible teacher.

  43. Ina Zajac October 21, 2017 at 5:37 pm - Reply

    I love these insights into feeding fear.
    I’ve largely unplugged from social media and news because I felt sucked into a world where I was little more than a victim.

    Time and attention are a form of currency, and I’m so much happier spending it: meditating, writing, getting outside, daydreaming, volunteering — reading Dr. Joe blogs. This one is especially relevant.

  44. Don L Price October 21, 2017 at 5:57 pm - Reply

    Excellent Article… life is always a reflection of our thoughts.

  45. Susan Feinbloom October 21, 2017 at 6:05 pm - Reply

    Thank you for all of your loving wisdom words. You deeply embody this in all of your workshops. Love and Blessings.

  46. Phyllis October 21, 2017 at 7:13 pm - Reply

    This is very much a biblically based approach, too – both about forgiveness, of course, and also about diverting attention from the bad to the good, ala Philippians 4:8: “..whatever is true, honorable, right, pure, lovely, of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, dwell on these things.” I love the word “dwell” in this context. It’s like Rick Hanson’s “taking in the good.” Thanks for the reminder! It’s so easy to get pulled into all that is not true, honorable, lovely, etc. I’ve come to learn that sometimes, though, we can’t easily dwell on the good, e.g., when we or loved ones are in deep pain or grief. In those moments, my trauma therapist reminds about non-resistance and remembering the hard state will pass. God bless.

  47. Adwynna MacKenzie October 21, 2017 at 8:37 pm - Reply

    Particularly timely…as always! A powerful reminder to be the eye of the storm…I love that calm place. Thank you #DRJoe

  48. cathy Preston October 21, 2017 at 11:58 pm - Reply

    It’s amazing to me the strength of the man who is Dr. Joe… incredibly kind and generous with your time and energy. Thank you so very much. We sure need leaders and are blessed to have you walking the earth with us. We appreciate your guidance and humorous, gentle light. Blessings to us all.

  49. Heather October 22, 2017 at 1:56 am - Reply

    Thanks Dr Joe, very timely. As always your words are full of wisdom. Blessings to you all.

  50. Dorothée Jean-Richard-dit-Bressel October 22, 2017 at 7:17 am - Reply

    I recently felt like an alien. everybody around me talked about the strange feelings and fear they have. they ask me”don`t you feel it?” when I say no, there is no panik, just curiosity, they say I probably am not aware and selfish. But I feel so peaceful since I do the daily meditations there is no fear it just is. Now I feel good,you, dear Dr. Joe told me I am doing well. Thank you

  51. Jenny M. October 22, 2017 at 7:41 am - Reply

    Dr. Joe, your “eye” is unique and so helpfull. Thank You so much for your clairvoyance.
    Much love

  52. georgina October 22, 2017 at 9:37 am - Reply

    We live in a time of accountability. All that needs to change is showing up, we can’t change that which we can’t see.

  53. Lawrence October 22, 2017 at 3:04 pm - Reply

    Thank you so much Dr. Joe for this reminder. Every time I hear some unpleasant political news I cringe, and then thinking about that later causes the same feeling. You gave me a way out by thinking about the present and attempting to do some act of kindness. That brings both relief and joy.

  54. Krista Rosen October 22, 2017 at 5:46 pm - Reply

    Thank you so much for confirming how to manage global events. Can’t wait to read your new book!

  55. Consulenza October 22, 2017 at 9:30 pm - Reply

    As usual, inspiring. “changing your choice”, this is absolutely empowering!

  56. Julianne Lewis October 23, 2017 at 3:32 am - Reply

    Thank you for this new insight about the world. Every day brings a new challenge and a different tragedy for people to come to terms with. We need a strong voice and commitment to choosing love instead of hate in every circumstance every day.

  57. Albert Arman October 23, 2017 at 8:00 am - Reply

    I hope to see you soon in Barcelona, Sitges! We need calm and to be the real eye of the storm……

  58. Eydie Desser October 23, 2017 at 3:03 pm - Reply

    Thank you Dr. Joe, for always bringing light and love and happy habits to us.

  59. Sharon Neville October 24, 2017 at 1:12 am - Reply

    Well said as always.
    With gratitude

  60. Eileen Casey October 25, 2017 at 5:03 am - Reply

    thank you, Dr. Joe, for a beautifully written and inspirational letter. With gratitude and blessings, Eileen

  61. Your continued sharing and my continued reading of the same our building networks in my brain into believing in living what I believe. Thanks again and again and again. Richard October 27, 2017 at 7:42 pm - Reply

    Thank You Joe, Your continued sharing and my continued reading of the same our building networks in my brain into believing in living what I believe. Thanks again and again and again

  62. Gisele November 4, 2017 at 3:40 pm - Reply

    What I have come to know is that the world will change in the same proportion as we do individually. When I heal everyone benefits. That is the best anyone can do for the world.

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